
We Couldn't Become Adults
2021 · Movie · TV-MA · 124 min · ★ 6.4 · 65% critics
After a social media prompt stirs old memories, a drifting man in midlife looks back on love, friendships, and the choices that shaped him from the 1990s onward. As the past resurfaces, he searches for the hopes he once carried and what became of them.
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Details
- Original title
- ボクたちはみんな大人になれなかった
- Years
- 2021
- Release date
- 2021-11-05
- Language
- Japanese
- Rated
- TV-MA
- Runtime
- 124 min
- Max quality
- UHD
- Critic score
- 65/100
- TMDB rating
- 6.4/10 (53 votes)
About
If you like reflective relationship dramas such as Just Remembering, this offers a wistful, heartfelt look at memory and missed chances; Not for you if you want fast pacing, light romance, or easy emotional closure.
Pros: emotionally rich story; strong lead performance; moving sense of loss | Cons: reverse timeline may challenge; somber mood throughout
Themes
- based on novel or book
- nostalgia
- love interest
- retrospective
- lost love
- 1990s
- self reflection
- bittersweet
Cast & crew

Mirai Moriyama
as Makoto Satō

Sairi Ito
as Kaori Kato

Masahiro Higashide
as Kenta Sekiguchi

Sumire
as Sū

Atsushi Shinohara
as Toshihiko Nanase

Yuko Oshima
as Megumi Ishida

Masato Hagiwara
as Hideaki Miyoshi

Takehiro Hira
as Keiichiro Sanai

Moemi Katayama
as Ayaka Iwai

Masanobu Takashima
as Takayuki Onda
Directed by Yoshihiro Mori