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We Couldn't Become Adults

2021 · Movie · TV-MA · 124 min · ★ 6.4 · 65% critics

DramaRomance

After a social media prompt stirs old memories, a drifting man in midlife looks back on love, friendships, and the choices that shaped him from the 1990s onward. As the past resurfaces, he searches for the hopes he once carried and what became of them.

Based on Q114095467

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Details
Original title
ボクたちはみんな大人になれなかった
Years
2021
Release date
2021-11-05
Language
Japanese
Rated
TV-MA
Runtime
124 min
Max quality
UHD
Critic score
65/100
TMDB rating
6.4/10 (53 votes)
About

If you like reflective relationship dramas such as Just Remembering, this offers a wistful, heartfelt look at memory and missed chances; Not for you if you want fast pacing, light romance, or easy emotional closure.

Pros: emotionally rich story; strong lead performance; moving sense of loss | Cons: reverse timeline may challenge; somber mood throughout

Themes

  • based on novel or book
  • nostalgia
  • love interest
  • retrospective
  • lost love
  • 1990s
  • self reflection
  • bittersweet

Cast & crew

Directed by Yoshihiro Mori