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Holding the Man

2015 · Movie · NR · 128 min · ★ 7.7 · 76% critics

Drama

Two teenage boys at an all-boys school fall in love and try to hold onto their relationship as they grow up. Over the next 15 years, they face separation, discrimination, jealousy, temptation, and profound loss, testing what devotion can endure when life turns unforgiving.

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Details
Years
2015
Release date
2015-08-27
Language
English
Rated
NR
Runtime
128 min
Critic score
76/100
TMDB rating
7.7/10 (461 votes)
About

You’ll likely connect with this if you want an emotional, relationship-focused drama about love under pressure and social prejudice; Not for you if you avoid heartbreaking stories or explicit intimacy, like in Brokeback Mountain or The Normal Heart.

Pros: deeply moving true story; powerful lead performances; honest, intimate romance | Cons: very heavy and sad; some timeline jumps confusing; raw illness scenes

Themes

  • australia
  • aids
  • 1970s
  • romance
  • love
  • hiv
  • lgbt
  • long term relationship
  • sexual discrimination
  • gay theme

Awards & recognition

  • AACTA AwardBest Direction · 2015 · nominated
  • AACTA AwardBest Adapted Screenplay · 2015 · nominated
  • AACTA AwardBest Editing · 2015 · nominated
  • AACTA AwardBest Actor in a Leading Role · 2015 · nominated
  • AACTA AwardBest Actor in a Supporting Role · 2015 · nominated
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  • AACTA AwardBest Film · 2015 · nominated

Cast & crew

Directed by Neil Armfield