
Holding the Man
2015 · Movie · NR · 128 min · ★ 7.7 · 76% critics
Two teenage boys at an all-boys school fall in love and try to hold onto their relationship as they grow up. Over the next 15 years, they face separation, discrimination, jealousy, temptation, and profound loss, testing what devotion can endure when life turns unforgiving.
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Details
- Years
- 2015
- Release date
- 2015-08-27
- Language
- English
- Rated
- NR
- Runtime
- 128 min
- Critic score
- 76/100
- TMDB rating
- 7.7/10 (461 votes)
About
You’ll likely connect with this if you want an emotional, relationship-focused drama about love under pressure and social prejudice; Not for you if you avoid heartbreaking stories or explicit intimacy, like in Brokeback Mountain or The Normal Heart.
Pros: deeply moving true story; powerful lead performances; honest, intimate romance | Cons: very heavy and sad; some timeline jumps confusing; raw illness scenes
Themes
- australia
- aids
- 1970s
- romance
- love
- hiv
- lgbt
- long term relationship
- sexual discrimination
- gay theme
Awards & recognition
- AACTA Award — Best Direction · 2015 · nominated
- AACTA Award — Best Adapted Screenplay · 2015 · nominated
- AACTA Award — Best Editing · 2015 · nominated
- AACTA Award — Best Actor in a Leading Role · 2015 · nominated
- AACTA Award — Best Actor in a Supporting Role · 2015 · nominated
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- AACTA Award — Best Film · 2015 · nominated
Cast & crew

Ryan Corr
as Timothy Conigrave

Craig Stott
as John Caleo

Guy Pearce
as Dick Conigrave

Sarah Snook
as Pepe Trevor

Anthony LaPaglia
as Bob Caleo

Geoffrey Rush
as Barry

Camilla Ah Kin
as Lois Caleo

Kerry Fox
as Mary Gert Conigrave

Tom Hobbs
as Peter Craig

Jacob Collins-Levy
as Andrew
Directed by Neil Armfield